
Set the Stage for Hard Conversations
June 3, 2025Start Early With Classroom Agreements
Two simple researched ways to create powerful classroom agreements for discussion. Whether you have a lot of time or not.

60 Minute Classroom Agreements Lesson
This classroom-ready lesson—developed by Greater Good in Education at UC Berkeley in partnership with Making Caring Common—guides educators through a structured process to build inclusive norms rooted in fairness, student voice, and civic responsibility.
Build Collaborative Classroom Norms
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Suggested Agreement Themes:
Here are some topics for you to consider introducing to your classroom.
- Take responsibility for your impact on others.
- Avoid sweeping generalizations.
- Treat diverse opinions as learning opportunities.
- Acknowledge that identities are complex and varied.
- Be mindful of how your words might affect others.
- Don’t place the burden of explanation on one individual or group.
Need Agreements Right Now?
Consider using these Conversation Agreements from Living Room Conversations if you don't have time for a whole class period to set standards.
Perfect for teachers who need a starting point for civil discourse today.
Try the Conversation Agreements from Living Room Conversations. These ready-to-use, student-friendly guidelines—such as “Be curious and open to learning” and “Show respect and suspend judgment”—provide a quick and effective way to set the tone for respectful, inclusive dialogue in your classroom.
Conversation Agreement Activities
Questions to Use with Conversations Agreements.
Using these reflection questions helps students internalize the Conversation Agreements by connecting them to their own experiences and behaviors. This encourages self-awareness, empathy, and accountability—key skills for productive dialogue.
Reflecting before a discussion also sets a thoughtful tone, helping students enter conversations with intention, openness, and a shared commitment to respectful, inclusive communication.